I love weddings. I do. At the actual ceremony, I always have a great time and am moved.
What I have a harder time with is all of the stuff that surrounds weddings. By stuff I mean wedding etiquette stuff or gifts or various parties. I am going to a wedding this fall and the bride had this card in the invitation saying that gift cards were required and expected. This is a direct quote. Geez.
One other wedding related thing I hate are cheesy over the top wedding websites. I appreciate the convenience of having all of this info online but sometimes people take it a little too far. It is especially hard when people who barely know each other -- who have been dating for a hot minute -- have these huge websites with all of this text about the story of how they met. I know this seems ironic since I have a blog and share all kinds of personal information about myself. So be it. All I know is that when I get married, in the section that asks how we met, I am simply going to put our phone numbers and a sentance: If you want to know how we met, just call us and ask us. We'd love to tell you the story again and again!
I read this funny, funny piece in The New Yorker's Shouts and Murmers that spoofed wedding websites. It made me laugh. Be sure to click on the links. They lead to an actual site.
Photo by Christy Bassman.
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