What do you do when you have friends that have different political beliefs than you do? Usually I can deal with it but this time of year it is harder to take than usual. I've tried to keep an open mind about our President but I just can not. What I think doesn't really matter anymore now that we have four more years of W but it's hard having friends who are excited about Bush's win.
One friend was telling me about a guy she met who voted for Bush in 2000 but he did that because he did not like Gore. He was more of a candidate person and I can relate to that. Gore was lame and no one really knew where he was coming from so she could excuse it. I kind of agreed with that especially since no one knew what W was going to be like as President. Now that we know though, other than the capital gains tax which many of my friends has secretly admitted has benefitted them and are excited about, Bush has made this country more divided both politically and economically.
I can't get making a vote for the way the administration is currently going. And why is Bush a righteous man exactly? He has killed so many people with the death penalty but I guess if you're in favor of the death penalty, that is a good thing. Eek! I don't know how to feel about that.
I guess I never saw myself as political before but as I get older and older, I just get more and more invested in what is going on in this world and am generally less apathetic. This makes it more and more difficult for me to be open to people who have beliefs that are entirely different from my own. That doesn't mean that I will end all of my friendships with people who have different beliefs than mine but it's hard to have much to talk about right now. Just the idea that they are getting joy from my pain is hard enough. (I know I'm being dramatic there but I thought it was a nice touch.)
Still, I wasn't in love with Kerry. I mean, he was better than Bush but his loss isn't a personal one in the sense that I was really invested in a person and they lost. It was more like, "Four more years of this bullshit administration."
I guess I have to seperate politics from my friendships, especially the ones where I can't really handle their beliefs. That's a hard thing to do right now. I think I need some more time.
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